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Sulei 66M
6784 posts
9/21/2010 5:46 pm

Last Read:
11/3/2010 5:17 pm

On Age Matters


I was exchanging comments and views with our remarkable blogger, Sense_of_honey, who recently resumed blogging after some absence!
in my comment, i said that most of the girls i had some sort of relationship with were in their 20s, and may be because i am already 52, but still feel i am 25 years old!
Those who know me better, know how teaser I can be! and that i enjoy lots of fun and jokes in most of my comments!
That whole blog of sense_of_honey, was so much related to the subject, since she said she would settle for an older man if he would be a sugar daddy!
in her reply to me, Sense_oh_honey wrote something like:
"may be you deserve the kind of because you feel 25. but i bet you will have hard time with other types of matured women who class and know their value"

i smiled as i was reading her comment and at the same time felt that she made it so personal as if she was burnt in a way or another!
but i didn't light the fire!
I only thought that it is not only the woman who decides what is the age of the man she can get!
man himself has his word about it!
and since it is a "love free" deal, and emotions are not involved or taken into consideration, then it is just a matter of "buying" the doll u want!
and the question remains unanswered, why would women in their 20s considered as women without class and have no values?!
do people gain the qualities that they might be classified according to only as they go aging?
and those in their 20s have no values just because they are young?
in case someone would reply to me by saying: "No, they have no values because they accept to have relationships with men their father's ages, just because they (might) be needy and run after those men's money!
then I would argue by saying even Miss sense_of_honey herself declared that she is looking for an older man with 2 conditions; 1. he must be filthy rich, 2. he must be not mean but spend willingly on her and her too!
So, what is the difference between girls in their 20s "who supposed to have no values or class, according to her" and sense_of_honey in her 35 year of age who got values and a class, yet looking for her sugar daddy?

A lot of material were written about being hooked by some older men just because those girls are poor, or have hard circumstances and seeking a better life style! Some other girls have some family commitments, and they need to earn in order to spend on their younger siblings and parents too!
these young ladies keep seeking possibilities, till they find themselves facing the ugly reality which tells them: choose the less bitterness! either an older husband, or go into !

Life never was easy for some human beings, so don't blame them just because u don't know their circumstances, and may be if u were in their situation, you would worse than what they are doing, just because someone there is waiting for u to give them some hope in life, regardless what is the price you paid for that provided hope!




Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/22/2010 2:53 am

bro desertshore, thanks for elaborating on the matter!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/22/2010 2:59 am

the thing i want to emphasize here, that no one should degrade just because their choice in life! no matter whether we like or dislike those choices!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/22/2010 3:03 am

during my last trip to the phil, i met a lady in manila who is just completed her 20s and started to be 30. this lady is one of the most i ever known with high values and principals in life! and you can easily and without much of effort, feel the unique class she enjoys, yet so nice, humble and caring! to me she is the best example that age has nothing to do with maturity at all!


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 49F
4829 posts
9/22/2010 3:21 am

i beg to disagree, maybe you ought to better understand what you read. i do not need a sugar daddy because i'm already too sweet myself ( got it?). anyways, i have survived living in a very expensive city with my kids, drive a luxury car, etc. at a time of recession so with His help i will continue to do so. when i dream, i dream big, so is that a crime? any woman wants to be taken cared of financially and i am not an exception.


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 49F
4829 posts
9/22/2010 3:26 am

you sound like an opportunist (DOM) who declares he is helping those young, gullible filipinas because of their unfortunate circumstances while exploiting their naiveness.


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/22/2010 5:31 am

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    you sound like an opportunist (DOM) who declares he is helping those young, gullible filipinas because of their unfortunate circumstances while exploiting their naiveness.
again u r wrong, honey! i was in the phil 4 months ago! i used no body! misused no body, abused no body! on the contrary those who met me in real, cant wait to see me again! the easiest thing to do is to accuse people with (big) words like yours! but the real task is to prove your accusation! besides, there is no one naive, honey! i did not and will not meet teenagers! other than that, every body is matured and know what she is doing! i helped people in the phil? yes i have been doing that over the last 10 years! abusing them for my help? i never had sex with any girl that i helped in my life! know what, honey? i wish u know me in real!! because i am a total opposite to what u think of me!! and my friends in the phil are much more smarter than what u think! I don't travel for sex, because sex is every where, and i can get it no matter what, if i wanted it, and in any country no matter how expensive that country is! just a piece of a little advice, don't be too judgmental, honey!


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 49F
4829 posts
9/22/2010 8:29 am

whoaaaa i must have hit a nerve there! please don't make me the cause of your breakdown.

and to think you said you were just joking in my blog now, it seems the joke is on you! anyways, keep up the "good" work if you say so.


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/22/2010 4:28 pm

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AL. thanks for sharing! u r just another good example of what I am saying! but the problem is with those who wont believe anything unless it is a copy of what they say! As if they were the shadow of God on earth!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/22/2010 4:31 pm

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Mua, some think what they do is correct! whatever that is! and whoever is the opposite, is wrong! they have fncy cars but they have no moeny for their fuel!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/23/2010 5:44 pm

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thanks for the nice words. hope u enjoy ur stay in manila! make the best of it as long as u can! all is ok here!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
9/23/2010 5:45 pm

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i wonder if she ever left! i always see MUA in the room!


jean_1000 47F

9/24/2010 1:19 pm



love is the greatest gift of all


achtungbabyZ2 49F

9/24/2010 2:31 pm

hmmmm juicy! i have a feeling....woooohooooo that tonights gonna be a good night!!!