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Sulei 66M
6786 posts
8/14/2010 8:18 am

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8/17/2010 6:24 pm

Making Love In Ramadan!


Since it is Ramadan now, let us talk about it!
Many people think fasting Muslims are not allowed to eat or drink during the day time (from dawn to sunset) in Ramadan. But there is much more than just eating!!

Making love is forbidden during the time of fasting!
meaning those hours you are not eating or drinking, you also forbidden to make love, even to your own wife!
but once it is sunset time, u can make love the way u want, even the whole night till dawn time! before dawn prayers, if u were still awake after making love, you should start with bathing, means washing all your body, and never go back to touch your woman until it is night again.
if u just fell asleep after making love and u got up the next morning, it doesn't mean u cant fast because u didn't bath before dawn time, but you can immediately go and bath, pray for your dawn prayers, and keep fasting!

Fasting is not meant to be a method of making people starve, but it is to exercise the capability of a human being to ban him/herself from what he/she desires in some situations!
it is more spiritual exercise than it is a physical behaviour!
in our region now a days, fasting is 15 hours a day at a temperature of at least 36 degrees C.
So, it really requires a lot of courage and a strong will in order to do it!




eb1209

8/14/2010 11:38 am

RAMADAN is part of Muslim culture and it's that time of the year when people are expected to observe the tradition as it is, religiously...I just wish people will practice CONTROL, STRONG WILL, and DETERMINATION, even if it's NOT RAMADAN!

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

8/14/2010 12:53 pm

have fun for 15 hours.

love is the greatest gift of all


Alex36 49M
383 posts
8/14/2010 2:09 pm

Is terrorism allowed during ramadan?

I may not be as good as I once was, but I'm as good as I ever was once.


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/14/2010 2:28 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    RAMADAN is part of Muslim culture and it's that time of the year when people are expected to observe the tradition as it is, religiously...I just wish people will practice CONTROL, STRONG WILL, and DETERMINATION, even if it's NOT RAMADAN!
Exactly Elz. good manners and behaviour should be practiced all over the year, not only to be reminded with, by this month! I just posted this entry when I found so many people do not really how muslim's private life go during the holy month!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/14/2010 2:55 pm

fun?


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/14/2010 2:56 pm

    Quoting Alex36:
    Is terrorism allowed during ramadan?



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/14/2010 5:16 pm

    Quoting Alex36:
    Is terrorism allowed during ramadan?
what a cheap old story!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/14/2010 5:22 pm

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thanks for the info Mel, but i think actions have to go with Beliefs, not the opposite!


charm_ed 62F
22 posts
8/15/2010 5:59 am

thanks for sharing

we are not at all different
in striving to be good and rigtheous


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/15/2010 6:36 am

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isn't that what i am literally saying?


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/16/2010 3:25 am

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Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/16/2010 4:02 am

    Quoting charm_ed:
    thanks for sharing

    we are not at all different
    in striving to be good and rigtheous

I also think so, Charm! thanks for passing by!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/16/2010 4:06 am

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u r absulotely right, Missy. It is all about our intentions and wills in life! ramadan is just one of our reminders about how to control things that should be controlled! And at the end, it is different ways of making us better human being in warshiping the same God, each on his/her own way!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/16/2010 4:09 am

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we might look at sky from different angles, still we looking the same sky! take care Mel.


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/17/2010 5:30 am

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hello Jo. Yes we go to work of course during the month of Ramadan but less 2 hours per day than other regular months. About the guy, yes i know he is around and made a comment on this blog!


Alex36 49M
383 posts
8/17/2010 6:12 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    what a cheap old story!
The truth hurts. Check out Muslim terrorist history..

I may not be as good as I once was, but I'm as good as I ever was once.


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
8/17/2010 6:24 pm

    Quoting Alex36:
    The truth hurts. Check out Muslim terrorist history..
if those terrorists saw ur boobs, may be they wont became what they ended up with, so it is ur fault, Donald!