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Sulei 66M
6786 posts
11/12/2009 5:49 pm

Last Read:
12/15/2009 4:10 pm

Sex Trips


It is not new to me, to hear a lady friend telling me:
- I like to meet you whenever you come to Pinas! But can I bring a friend with me?
I used to think why should a friend who is coming to see me and meet me in person after years of chatting, bring someone with her in case she is going to meet up with me?
until lately one of my good friends (lady) said:
I like to meet you but only if that meeting is a decent one!
now, how a meeting can be decent and it might be indecent?

I talked to a filipino friend at length about it, and here what he told me:

"Many foreigners come to the Philippines only for sex! it is cheaper for them. Not only that, but they might get a better quality than women in their countries too!"
and he added: "Look at those old guys who keep chasing ! why u think they do that? You think it is real love?"
and he answers to that : "of course not! these old men cant find in their countries girls in their twenties or even teenagers, either to view them naked on web cams, or meet them for sex if they are really coming to the country"!

It is shocking to me!
do people really travel so long hours, specially those who should make a stop over somewhere, or might even have to change the plane and wait for the other one just to find cheap sex?
It is true that one time, a girl from FFF sent me an email telling me that she is working for a company that provide some sort of services includes, hotel, food and girls, mostly done in Davao!
When I asked her, but how would u know the girl of my taste to prepare it as part of the package?
she said: " No, every night we bring 4-5 girls and u have to choose the one or more u want!"
But even if this is true, this might happen all over the world!!
what i am discussing here, whether it is true that some guys might really travel just for sex, and if that is the case, should any filipina meeting a friend who is visiting her country think that he is also meeting her for sex?

While thinking of all that, I thought, Oh my God! I have so many women friends almost all over the philippines, and even I were a sex machine, I wont be able to make that trip successful!




Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/12/2009 5:57 pm

in spite of all that, I still believe Pinays are the best and whatever they say, it wont change my thinking of them


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/12/2009 5:59 pm

I have always said and believed, sex is just the fruit of love! sex is beautiful, but only when done with the person u r in love with!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/12/2009 6:00 pm

i wont care much to travel even by car to have sex but i do care to travel to the end of the world to be with the woman I love! and once I am with her, I am sure she wont bring a bodyguard with her!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/12/2009 6:03 pm

in brief, I am proud of all my filipina friends regardless of their sexaul quality, but on the base of their humanity on the first place!


frozenflower3 64F

11/12/2009 6:54 pm

Sulei,

Nice story...


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/12/2009 7:46 pm

good morning Tess thanks for ur visit!


smiley1957 66F

11/13/2009 5:50 am

"a supposedly friend whom u chat with for a year wants to bring a friend when she meets up with u"... either she don't trust u or not confident with herself

i have observed, many foreyners come here in the country for their long awaited vacation from work, they chose the philippines, namely bcoz, there are lots of nice places to visit ...people are warm and hospitable...women (who've been the apple of their eyes and intend to meet them all, if possible ) are pretty

be it decent or indecent meeting...will depend on both of u
takes two to tango...if these women allowed themselves to have sekz with these foreyners, that's their choice...men will never say NO to a side trip ...it's a plus......who never likes a bonus on a trip anyways???

but then, i believed that... to travel that far just for sekz only is being desperate

and with regards to that kinda pimp thingy ...u are right! it's happening all over the world...it's the oldest profession done with decent facade

u bet sulei! ...u have lots of filipina sexy friends ...u can't be a sekz machine but...blue pill could help





asiabeaute29 44F
148 posts
11/13/2009 6:22 am

    Quoting Sulei:
    i wont care much to travel even by car to have sex but i do care to travel to the end of the world to be with the woman I love! and once I am with her, I am sure she wont bring a bodyguard with her!
Again, i totally agree with you on this, Sulei! I would rather not meet the guy than to offend him by bringing bodyguards or chaperon lol! I think we are old enough to take good care of things or making decisions by ourselves whether we can be confident with the person.


asiabeaute29 44F
148 posts
11/13/2009 6:28 am

Hahaha your friend was right Sulei. I totally agree, but most foreign guys who visit the country really love to visit the country and sext is just a bonus part. So before they land themselves to the philippines, they try to meet filipina girls online because of course it would be nicer if they could get themselves a DATE, right? LOL now it's clear to you, Sulei! But for me, if i think i could not trust the guy, i would never meet him nor tell him hey, ill meet you provided that there should be a chaperon I respect that but for me, hey, it's my date and i want to spend some quality time with him because i love him, i trust him and i was already certain before that meeting so THIS IS OUR MOMENT, ALONE.

But beware, some dont just meet a single girl, there should be two or more! 2 days here, and 2 days there lol!


pinoylover1 74M
1152 posts
11/13/2009 9:53 am

hi bro sulei...i strongly agree too...many foreign older caucasian men are frequenting these third world countries for pleasure and sex tours...many hot spots in pinas majority of the guest are foreign caucasian men looking for action...i think older white men are frequenting these countries to mingle with young women coz once they becomes seniors in their country it's very difficult for them to hang out with young women who would accept them as partners in crime...


jean_1000 47F

11/13/2009 3:35 pm

this is really true...and poor girls are think they have a jackpot to have a foreigner bf...i hope they see your blog so they can wake up...

love is the greatest gift of all


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:03 pm

first of all, I must apologize for my commenting friends for being so busy and not having replied to their comments and not yet thanked them for elaborating on the subject!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:04 pm

    Quoting  :

oh really? good to know, diamond!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:08 pm

    Quoting  :

how sure now are you, Diamond? btw, welcome back to my blogland


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:10 pm

    Quoting  :

sexy, i know u know what i mean exactly! still u remained silent! anyway good to see u back my friend


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:12 pm

    Quoting  :

dear tinidor,
first, i never bring bodyguard with me, but i hire them in manila
secondly, yes, u r right, I also pray for those young girls to achieve what they aimed at in a peaceful way at least



hoosey22

11/13/2009 4:13 pm

    Quoting pinoylover1:
    hi bro sulei...i strongly agree too...many foreign older caucasian men are frequenting these third world countries for pleasure and sex tours...many hot spots in pinas majority of the guest are foreign caucasian men looking for action...i think older white men are frequenting these countries to mingle with young women coz once they becomes seniors in their country it's very difficult for them to hang out with young women who would accept them as partners in crime...
Pinoy your always in the ELR boasting about your pinay g/f whos half your age. Are you also sex tourist ? or have you become senior in USA lol,
Double standards or what ? But its ok for you ?
Seems you have big problem with caucasian men sir
If younger pinay want to date older guys its there biz
Waken up Manny your doing the same thing as the guys your critizise


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:18 pm

    Quoting smiley1957:
    "a supposedly friend whom u chat with for a year wants to bring a friend when she meets up with u"... either she don't trust u or not confident with herself

    i have observed, many foreyners come here in the country for their long awaited vacation from work, they chose the philippines, namely bcoz, there are lots of nice places to visit ...people are warm and hospitable...women (who've been the apple of their eyes and intend to meet them all, if possible ) are pretty

    be it decent or indecent meeting...will depend on both of u
    takes two to tango...if these women allowed themselves to have sekz with these foreyners, that's their choice...men will never say NO to a side trip ...it's a plus......who never likes a bonus on a trip anyways???

    but then, i believed that... to travel that far just for sekz only is being desperate

    and with regards to that kinda pimp thingy ...u are right! it's happening all over the world...it's the oldest profession done with decent facade

    u bet sulei! ...u have lots of filipina sexy friends ...u can't be a sekz machine but...blue pill could help



my problomatic friend, smiley
i know she is trust me a lot, but who knows, may be she does not want to look weak in front of me
i know how nice filipino people and warm too! besides, we heard a lot of a very beautiful places to visit in the philippines, u r right!
now, sex wise, yes it takes two to tango, but that does not mean all guys are coming to tango, and with whoever she might be! that would be cheap sex indeed, Smiley
I know u will advocate the case on your own nice way
thanks for elaborating my friend



Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:21 pm

    Quoting asiabeaute29:
    Again, i totally agree with you on this, Sulei! I would rather not meet the guy than to offend him by bringing bodyguards or chaperon lol! I think we are old enough to take good care of things or making decisions by ourselves whether we can be confident with the person.
asiabeaute, thanks you very much for visiting my blogland and yes indeed! I do agree with ur thoughts totally! that is the way how things should be!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:24 pm

    Quoting asiabeaute29:
    Hahaha your friend was right Sulei. I totally agree, but most foreign guys who visit the country really love to visit the country and sext is just a bonus part. So before they land themselves to the philippines, they try to meet filipina girls online because of course it would be nicer if they could get themselves a DATE, right? LOL now it's clear to you, Sulei! But for me, if i think i could not trust the guy, i would never meet him nor tell him hey, ill meet you provided that there should be a chaperon I respect that but for me, hey, it's my date and i want to spend some quality time with him because i love him, i trust him and i was already certain before that meeting so THIS IS OUR MOMENT, ALONE.

    But beware, some dont just meet a single girl, there should be two or more! 2 days here, and 2 days there lol!
again, I salute you for your brave heart, asiabeaute! i have nothing more to add to what u just have said


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:26 pm

    Quoting pinoylover1:
    hi bro sulei...i strongly agree too...many foreign older caucasian men are frequenting these third world countries for pleasure and sex tours...many hot spots in pinas majority of the guest are foreign caucasian men looking for action...i think older white men are frequenting these countries to mingle with young women coz once they becomes seniors in their country it's very difficult for them to hang out with young women who would accept them as partners in crime...
hello bro Manny, and welcome back to my blogland! and yes u r right because i heard it from many filipino about those frequent visits and what happens there! it is just sad when a girl left alone after all, if that tourist guy never had the time to remember her again after he gets back home!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:29 pm

    Quoting jean_1000:
    this is really true...and poor girls are think they have a jackpot to have a foreigner bf...i hope they see your blog so they can wake up...
hello sis jean, and thanks for your comment! well all i wanted to say that people should have healthy relationship, and once it happened, they should take care of it to keep it alive! It is pity if some guys enjoy the fun just for the time being because it is cheaper for them and then go!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:32 pm

    Quoting hoosey22:
    Pinoy your always in the ELR boasting about your pinay g/f whos half your age. Are you also sex tourist ? or have you become senior in USA lol,
    Double standards or what ? But its ok for you ?
    Seems you have big problem with caucasian men sir
    If younger pinay want to date older guys its there biz
    Waken up Manny your doing the same thing as the guys your critizise
hello bro hoosey and thanks for visiting my blogland! I will leave the rest to bro Manny to reply to!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:36 pm

now! in order to make this clear, I did not mean with this blog to critisize anybody, race or culture! I was discussing the phenomena and analyzing the behaviour! therefore we cant say this nation is guilty and that one is so innocent! in all cases, it is a personal point of view that has to do with private actions taken by those who are concerned!


Sulei 66M
8039 posts
11/13/2009 4:41 pm

i have been a member of this site for more than 5 years now. I have heard so many stories! most of them are sad ones! stories of those young girls married to some foreign guys and becoming pregnant, but they never seen those guys again! stories of girls who left their jobs to be with a tourist just to please him and take care of him during his stay in the philippines being convinced that he will take care of her forever, but she neither kept her job nor heard of him again! ...etc! i know many of you have some thing to tell on the subject!