On Love And Lust  

Sulei

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10/21/2009 5:08 pm

poweroflove3

10/8/2009 5:59 am

sweetkisses16

10/8/2009 6:05 am

Mua_hati

10/8/2009 7:39 am

DogDarko1974

10/8/2009 8:11 am

gma1025

10/8/2009 8:18 am

Sulei

10/8/2009 8:44 am

Quoting poweroflove3:

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Sulei,

Good morning. For a man it's always sex first. And through a woman love then sex. It's like asking the question did the egg or chicken come first. Women will always be in love to have sex. As for men sex is the drive. Then love is only secondary. Only a few are in it for the pure love. And that came from God above. Not tainted with lust...

Have a great weekend!!!

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Sulei

10/8/2009 8:46 am

Quoting sweetkisses16:

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Sulei, I am here for true love, not for lust!

but with this article, i am now thinking, can lust really lead to real love? i wonder

Hope to see feedbacks to this

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Girly! I also wonder too! but don't ever think Lust alone would do! now i want to hear from someone saying that lust leads to love! let us wait and see what other friends say about it!

eb1209

12173 posts

10/8/2009 9:06 am

cali4nio

63 posts

10/8/2009 12:46 pm

amabella

10/8/2009 1:48 pm

jane82

10/8/2009 2:57 pm

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:38 pm

Quoting Mua_hati:

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OHM.... ON MY PROFILE STATE WRITTEN : "A FRIENDLY HALLO TO EVERYONE" SO NEITHER OF THE TWO
THE HECK, EITHER WHICH WAY, BOTH ARE WONDERFUL TO EXPERIENCE.
OHM... SULEI, MY HUSBAND SAY, THERE IS AN EXEMPTION TO THE RULE RE "NO WOMAN IS A DEVIL" ..... HE AINT GONNA SAY THO WHOM HE MEANTS

ALWAYS A HEARTY REGARD !!!

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my prettiest sis! ur husband is right! there is an exception always, but opkors, it is not you!

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:40 pm

Quoting DogDarko1974:

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Yeah, I really don't feel it's fair and accurate in modern times to say that man are all about lust and women are love first - more from a Western point of view, I guess

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I do support this thought, darko! from a middle eastern point of view too! thanks bro for ur visit to my blogland!

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:42 pm

Quoting gma1025:

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Hello Sir i agree on what did sister POWEROFLOVE's post most women are looking for true love before doing such thing they make sure that they love the man

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hello Ms. gma! hummm why don't u try lust and see if it leads to love? unless u already experienced the situation?

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Sulei

10/8/2009 4:44 pm

Quoting eb1209:

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I'd be a good lover, not a luster..

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Elz, u think it works, love without lust? is that what u r looking for now, or u talking out of personal experience too?

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:47 pm

Quoting eb1209:

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I'd be a good lover, not a luster..

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here is another question, Elz...what do u advise girls who have their boyfriends asking them for lust in order to prove their love? would u advise a girl to try all her sexual capabilities in order to convince a guy she loves him deep?

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:50 pm

Quoting cali4nio:

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Here is my take on it
LUST:
will only last a few days, weeks or so, or until youÂ’ve finally hit home run
And if all you can think about is:
Her bumpers and headlights
DonÂ’t care to hear her voice as long as you get a visualization of her.
DonÂ’t care how her day went but more interested on what is the agenda for the time being while were together.
When all you can think about of places to bring her only includes 4 walls and a bed
When your mind is occupied with the though of all the possible position you will try and thinking of how many times you can hit it in a specific amount of time (hours) (applies to love too)
EtcÂ….. I think ya all get the picture!!!!!

In the other hand Love mmm let me think
The feeling last a lifetime (so they say)
Longing and yearning to hear her sweet voice every second of the day �
The though of that smile greeting you in the front door after a long days work.
Playing footsies underneath the table during a candle light dinner
Your tomorrow includes white picket fence home with young ens running around bursting with carefree laughter.
Travel plans include beaches, sunsets and spas!!
Marvin Gay and Berry White playing on the MP3/CD while hitting it in a candle lit room (bed room, bath room kitchen) .
When the two of you are apart and your intoxicated it is him/her you long for to remove your clothing and do as they please(my previous way of gauging) (Assuming you went home alone after partying)
EtcÂ…...

I think for those who have really experience true love can differentiate the two.
Whether its lust or love itÂ’s exciting and gets us through another day.

LUST IN LOVE

FACE IT, ACCEPT IT, DEAL WITH IT, AND LET IT GO!!!!!!

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bro cali, this is a very americanized point of view about love and lust! personally, I wont comment on what you are saying, and would rather leave it to the ladies to see what would they say about it! however, there is much of truth in what u have elaborated on! thanks bro for visiting my blogland

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:52 pm

Quoting amabella:

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love and intimacy go hand in hand, at least in my opinion..
to feel totally in love and be physically attracted and aroused by your partner...
any other thing better to have than that?
good day Sulei.

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as usual! a lot of logic in what u have said, joyce! that is easy and practical i think! have a nice day too my friend

Sulei

10/8/2009 4:53 pm

Quoting jane82:

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You can lust after some1 you love.

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... and u think u can never love someone that u had lust with, jane?

gma1025

10/8/2009 7:15 pm

Quoting Sulei:

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hello Ms. gma! hummm why don't u try lust and see if it leads to love? unless u already experienced the situation?

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hi Sir Sulei i wont ever do trying to lust first and see where it leads if i do that, i feel disrecpect to my ownself and change my values in life have a good day Sir

smiley1957

10/8/2009 8:30 pm

catchmefucan07

Ask me for a photo

10/8/2009 8:58 pm

sweetkisses16

10/9/2009 3:12 am

Sulei

10/9/2009 3:58 am

Quoting gma1025:

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hi Sir Sulei i wont ever do trying to lust first and see where it leads if i do that, i feel disrecpect to my ownself and change my values in life have a good day Sir

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hello gma! well, self respect and lust!! do they contradict? where and how? I am not saying u will sell your body when u lust! not that what i meant! but when u lust, must be to a man that u like! why not presume to would strengthen your love with him? does it hurt your bride to think in such a way? i wonder

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Sulei

10/9/2009 4:01 am

Quoting smiley1957:

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no man is an island
and no woman, no cry

i would say...
lust is what set up love
a love without lust? that's BS
even platonic love consist of lust...only that they just keep on drooling while lusting
but yes, there are instances where...men and (women) lust for someone, somehow, somewhere...next step is for them to decide...either make or break >>>going to a love relationship

i love it when MY MAN lust on me
it means he loves me

but those other men who lust for me?
it will be very flattering
come and get me!





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smiley u don't surprise me with your point of view! you think lust is the base for real love! or there is no love if there is no lust! anyway, I respect your thoughts any feelings ooopps! i mean desires! but what do u think of what Elz has just said that she is for love not lust?

Sulei

10/9/2009 4:04 am

Sulei

10/9/2009 4:06 am

Quoting catchmefucan07:

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Hmmmmm....I'm really confused

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my dear catchme! nothing to be confused about! we are studying the sexual human behavior, and trying to link it to to the pure human love feeling! which might leads to which! as easy as that!

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Sulei

10/9/2009 4:08 am

Quoting sweetkisses16:

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With all the comments above, i can now say that "lust" can POSSIBLY lead to "love...
but ofcourse, it depends on the personality of the people involve.

Very nice topic, Sulei, my friend

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my dear friend, u might be right in your conclusion! but remember one important thing! It should not be lust for lust!

Sulei

10/9/2009 4:10 am

Quoting sweetkisses16:

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With all the comments above, i can now say that "lust" can POSSIBLY lead to "love...
but ofcourse, it depends on the personality of the people involve.

Very nice topic, Sulei, my friend

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btw, sweet girly, when are going to read new blogs of you? r u not in the mode yet? hope all is ok with you!

cali4nio

63 posts

10/9/2009 10:02 am

Quoting Sulei:

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bro cali, this is a very americanized point of view about love and lust! personally, I wont comment on what you are saying, and would rather leave it to the ladies to see what would they say about it! however, there is much of truth in what u have elaborated on! thanks bro for visiting my blogland

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jane82

10/9/2009 10:18 am

Quoting Sulei:

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... and u think u can never love someone that u had lust with, jane?

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sweetkisses16

10/9/2009 5:08 pm

Quoting Sulei:

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btw, sweet girly, when are going to read new blogs of you? r u not in the mode yet? hope all is ok with you!

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sweetkisses16

10/9/2009 5:10 pm

Sulei

10/10/2009 3:54 am

Quoting cali4nio:

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Sulei Bro, I would not go that far as to call it "very Americanized point of view". I just call it as I see fit

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Bro Cali, ur right! and i respect your point of view! may be for some other pars of the world it would be too much what u see is fitting, yet, i can understand!

Sulei

10/10/2009 3:57 am

Quoting jane82:

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Can't speak for anyone else. I'll leave room for this chance to happen, so I'd say it's possible to lust first then possibly love someone for other people.

But from my experience, I haven't lusted for a guy and find out later I love him. It was always plain lust when I was in my teens and it didn't develop into anything else. It remained lustful.

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Sulei

10/10/2009 4:01 am

Quoting sweetkisses16:

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Actually, i was a little not in the mood to write blogs these days... coz i'm missing someone so much...you probably know who he is. but

don't worry, i think i have recovered now... it'll not be long before you see new blogs from me...
my last blog: Global Warming

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Well, I am glad you overcome the situation now! may be u need a longer time yet, but i know u r strong enough to move a head!

Sulei

10/10/2009 4:04 am

Quoting sweetkisses16:

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Sulei, i like these lines:

"No man is an angel!
And no woman is a devil!"

Logically thinking:

"All men are devils";
All women are angels"

hmmmmm

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girly, may be u liked these lines because they fit to a certain situation! but, ....... well no harm in seeing you an angel, girly but u think you would see me as a devil?

Mua_hati

10/10/2009 8:57 am

Sulei

10/10/2009 2:11 pm

Quoting Mua_hati:

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ME AGAIN... VERY AMUSING, FUNNY, INTERESTING (AND A FEW SEEM NOT TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHATS GOING ON)
LOVE -- LUST -- LUST -- LOVE -- BOTH BELONG TOGETHER, RE POWEROFLOVE3'S COMMENT, SORRY BUT IT WAS KINDA PREJUDICED AND GENERALIZED -- SOME MEN OR SOME WOMEN I WOULD AGREE BUT DEFINITELY NOT A L L ... AND WE ARE LIVING IN A SO CALLED "MODERN WORLD" WOMEN OUGHT FEEL LUST AND NOT NECESSARILY FELL IN LOVE FIRST. JUST AS SOME MEN LUST ONLY TO THE WOMAN THEY LOVE...
HMMMM .....

SULEI, YOU DO BRING ME TO THINK ALWAYS ...ohm.. but only ALMOST always

HEARTY REGARDS ALWAYS

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welcome back MUA!
thinking is a good excercise!
to your brain and to your values as well
you call it a "modern" world!
I call it a "changable" world!
it could be better
it could be worst!
however, human beings remain
the main players!
and the story of Adam and Eve
remains the hidden topic
in every human life!

Mua_hati

10/11/2009 3:32 pm

Sulei

10/11/2009 5:00 pm

Quoting Mua_hati:

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SURE THING, THINKING IS INDEED A GOOD EXCERSICE FOR THE BRAIN.... DEMENZIA GO AWAY !! OF COURSE IT IS A CHANGEABLE MODERN WORLD.... WE CALLED IT AND OLD WORLD BEFORE, NOW IT IS THE MODERN WORLD AND TOMORROW ???
TRUE TOO, HUMAN BEINGS REMAIN THE MAIN PLAYER HENCE THE STAGE WOULD BE EMPTY
COME ON, SULEI DEAR ... THE STORY WAS NEVER A HIDDEN TOPIC, WE DO LEARN IT FROM CHILDHOOD WHOM WE DO OWE OUR EXISTENCE OR ???
IT IS AN OPEN BOOK ... BIBLE ???

REGARDS ALWAYS

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when you have that faith, I can only agree! and you are really a great learner and a great observant! I am glad of exchanging these comments with you! it makes me feel in a debate that is happening in an open forum for all! thanks for enhancing my capabilities too, MUA

Mua_hati

10/12/2009 4:16 am

bluecomb

10/19/2009 1:47 am

Sulei

10/21/2009 5:39 am

Quoting Mua_hati:

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SULEI, MY SINCEREST THANKS AS WELL

PLEASE DON'T GET TIRED SUPPLYING US WITH WONDERFUL THOUGHTS !!!

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEK !!!

REGARDS

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hello MUA, am back again after almost a week of a vacation! there wasn't much of love of lust, but pure rest

Sulei

10/21/2009 5:40 am

Quoting bluecomb:

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Love then lust...that would be most proper....sulie.

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be it then, blue love or lust, they lead to each other

Mua_hati

10/21/2009 2:05 pm

Sulei

10/21/2009 5:08 pm

Quoting Mua_hati:

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Quoting Mua_hati:
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SULEI, MY SINCEREST THANKS AS WELL

PLEASE DON'T GET TIRED SUPPLYING US WITH WONDERFUL THOUGHTS !!!

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEK !!!

REGARDS
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hello MUA, am back again after almost a week of a vacation! there wasn't much of love of lust, but pure rest

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SULEI DEAR... THE BETTER THEN, YOU HAVE MORE POWER TO FILL US WITH WONDERFUL THOUGHTS ....

HEARTY REGARDS AS ALWAYS,
MUA

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I have already made one, Mua, hope u liked it! even it has many "MAYS"