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fantasiamore2 72F
860 posts
5/6/2021 7:32 pm
How Are You Labeled



Yes! You call friend
But how am I being treated
Since childhood we were together
Am I considered an adopted kin
Or perhaps your childhoof peer?

Our high school days were full of fun
We talked for hours on the phone
Exchanging notes when one is absent
Routines included library and canteen
We graduated got separated in college.

Working under pressure because of deadlines
Oftener we'd discuss solutions to_ problems
The night is always young to finish our work
Those coffee drinks lightened our burdens.
I got reassigned our communications stopped.

I got married took you as my 's god parent
My marriage failed you were there to listen
You remained a bachelor for a long time
Darned those ladies blind to your goodness
Or my guess is you've been too choosy.

Your wedding was a good delight
Finally you have a spouse to call
Within a few a sad plight
You became a widower that's too soon
We talk about our lives and exchange stories.

We have many things in common
Agree with almost all no dull moment
There was never an argument between us
Though it is not always a good day for us
What I know am comfortable with your presence.


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
5/7/2021 11:42 am

Have ever been labeled or defined in any relationship during your lifetime without you asking for it? This is aside from finding it platonic or under an MU arrangement?


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
5/10/2021 7:33 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    Have ever been labeled or defined in any relationship during your lifetime without you asking for it? This is aside from finding it platonic or under an MU arrangement?
To be honest? Most of my close encounters were labeled (by me) as " platonic" although, most of the time, the person on the other end, I could sense, expected more, but they know me too well, that if they pushed, I would have walked away in fear of the so many things unknown.

ELZ


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
5/11/2021 6:38 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    To be honest? Most of my close encounters were labeled (by me) as " platonic" although, most of the time, the person on the other end, I could sense, expected more, but they know me too well, that if they pushed, I would have walked away in fear of the so many things unknown.
in general, with platonic and MU, i find it difficult truly..although there is that bond that exists, one is still not sure where and how to act without the vocal understanding..even in vocal understanding drawing the line could still be a question..what more if there is no fixed declaration...especially these days when commitment can be said pragmatic..