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fantasiamore2 72F
860 posts
1/4/2021 10:53 am
HAPPY OR UNHAPPY


I wanna ask, since most of the FFF members here searching are divorced, if not separated, so here goes...

"Did your divorce make you happy or unhappy when you got it? Did you ever regret you went through it, because I know there were occasions when the divorced couple re-married?"
fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
1/4/2021 10:55 am

 if divorce were granted in the Philippines, can you say there will be more bitter children growing up?


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
1/5/2021 6:06 pm
    Quoting  :
yours was made a happy ending..there is more to divorce being an advantage...one is that it allows you to find another, with all its legality but provided divorce is recognized in the country where the 2nd marriage is held....


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
1/5/2021 6:34 pm

 In my case, it was an annulment, a well thought of one. I wanted to save it first, but my heart did not agree with my brain.It caused me a tremendous pain, and it affected our only child so much. No father figure, and Mom (me) working in the USA while he was raised by grandma, who loved him dearly, but made him rotten spoiled. It made me so independent, to the point that my standards in a relationship even went higher. I tried one more time, but right love, right time, wrong situation...It failed again, and since then...yah, no more.
ELZ


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
1/6/2021 9:00 am
    Quoting godiva0824:
    In my case, it was an annulment, a well thought of one. I wanted to save it first, but my heart did not agree with my brain.It caused me a tremendous pain, and it affected our only child so much. No father figure, and Mom (me) working in the USA while he was raised by grandma, who loved him dearly, but made him rotten spoiled. It made me so independent, to the point that my standards in a relationship even went higher. I tried one more time, but right love, right time, wrong situation...It failed again, and since then...yah, no more.
women try as hard not to break the vow, but the maximum tolerance also wears out, simply because we're just humans...not only that we are always wary on what effect it can bring to our offspring..who for the most part would be our ever priority..we want the least effect possible..

on my part, because divorce is not possible, separation was the solution, when kids understood the marriage was breaking me..at least that way, there will be no one or nothing as compelling force to tell me what to do and don't like to do...a master of my house, in other words.


BichonFrise 30M
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34 posts
1/14/2021 7:14 pm

 Most of my older cousins whether from the Philippines or not never want to marry. They just enjoy their relationships one day at a time. Most of them are living in with their significant others. Two of my male cousins in Rizal have kids out of wedlock. And my uncle has six children (all of them are adult) and both of their parents are into common law union.


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
1/16/2021 7:03 am
    Quoting BichonFrise:
    Most of my older cousins whether from the Philippines or not never want to marry. They just enjoy their relationships one day at a time. Most of them are living in with their significant others. Two of my male cousins in Rizal have kids out of wedlock. And my uncle has six children (all of them are adult) and both of their parents are into common law union.
if living in was already trending during my time..i would have opted that arrangement than marrying..maybe because i have not found a real and true marriage with what i have had..having found a not-deserving person to marry...it would have been more comforting that way..my cherished consolation were the children that were born from it..

i have noticed, canada recognizes as legal having this significant other...you can even sponsor as a family relations to come to canada...and all rights are also accorded to the common law partner...they enjoy the same privileges as the wedded spouse...but let me ask what about taxes, social benefits or healthcare? what controls these benefits, is it obligatory for the live-in spouse to borne or share such expenses, too?




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