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fantasiamore2 72F
860 posts
12/18/2020 7:46 pm
ON BEING LONELY



Remember the lyrics of a song that goes
"Am just a lonely boy, lonely and blue
With nothing to do"..these lyrics tell you
It's only a state of mind that's without glow.

Being lonely is not all about being alone
A need for company or to talk with someone
This loss of a loved one in the family
Are causative factors that are temporal largely.

Though loneliness is caused by one's low esteem
These feelings of emptiness being unwanted
Become the outcry when one feels deprived
Where isolation is nurtured loneliness gets rooted.

End-result of being lonely can lead to depression
When aggravated gives a serious medical condition
The mental health of the person is jeopardized
May be irreversible if not attended or categorized.

Our Maker created and gave us a beautiful world
We need to draw from it that which gives balance
In order to make our minds and emotions unfurl
With the right thoughts we make this our challenge.


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/18/2020 8:22 pm

With covid 19, would you have more reasons to become lonely?


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
12/19/2020 4:28 am

    Quoting fantasiamore2:
    With covid 19, would you have more reasons to become lonely?
Aww Tajane where's the zest? Life is still good, amidst crisis. And this pandemic, however shadowed our happiness and peace of mind, will be gone one day soon and we'll still be here. Cheer up. Am looking forward to seeing you. Love yah =


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/19/2020 4:37 am

    Quoting theta2011:
    Aww Tajane where's the zest? Life is still good, amidst crisis. And this pandemic, however shadowed our happiness and peace of mind, will be gone one day soon and we'll still be here. Cheer up. Am looking forward to seeing you. Love yah =
hallelujah! there are better reasons not to get lonely i know...but with things or persons that i got used to and all so far away, well..i can't help but be sad because oh you know me..am always bubbly when surrounded by these same people...the season must have contributed a lot to my homesickness and because people here are more impersonal in that they are either busy working or studying, with little time for sit down exchanges..well, for a few more months i will see the same again...yes! i love to see you again! always will have you in my heart, kiddie sis!


godiva0824 63F
3469 posts
12/19/2020 6:06 pm

We are not the only ones suffering from loneliness or depression from this pandemic (or even prior). It is a state of mind, indeed, but we can make it temporary..

ELZ


fantasiamore2 72F
876 posts
12/19/2020 9:48 pm

    Quoting godiva0824:
    We are not the only ones suffering from loneliness or depression from this pandemic (or even prior). It is a state of mind, indeed, but we can make it temporary..
true! the state of mind can be changed if we do not want a languor on it...to change the mood perhaps time to socialize much as one can..,delving in what makes one carrying this heavy feelings is simply destructive..